Dave's Blog

I’m not talking about your taxes. I’m talking about your communication. When you have a strong emotional reaction to something your partner has said or done, talk about it with them. Often, your partner has no idea that it was any kind of deal at all, much less as big of a deal as it is to you.
Wedges get driven between you and your partner when you withhold communication. If you wait too long to discuss it, it will be VERY difficult to resolve.
People are often very surprised when a single action causes reactions that appear totally unrelated years later.