Dave's Blog

In days past, when a boy reached a certain age, he would have to do something to become a man. Many societies developed “coming of age” ceremonies. Now, they just have to live on this planet for a certain number of years.

Young men today have no path to determining their purpose. There is no drive or reason for them to do so. Not having made a choice for their purpose in life by age 30 is ok and in many cases acceptable by society today.

Women are attracted to men that know their purpose. Women want a man who puts his purpose in life above everything else, including her.

People wonder why relationships don’t last. There are many reasons why relationships don’t last. One reason, is that the man puts the woman on a pedestal and puts her above everything else in his life. One reason is because she settled for a boy because she couldn’t find a man who wasn’t an ass. One reason is because she wants sex, and society says that it’s not ok for a woman to have sex with the random guy she finds attractive so she settles for a guy that is a “nice-guy.”

Nice guys are often passive aggressive, wishy-washy, and have no understanding of their purpose. They are the 30 something, hopping from job to job in search of their purpose. If these guys would actually take the time to reflect inward and learn their purpose, they could become fantastic men. It’s too bad that we don’t teach guys to do so early in life.